Why did they choose loneliness?

Hard to be lonely. It would seem that you can live the way you want, or under who do not adapt,   professional self-realization.. However, most women are very vulnerable: they need love, they need to feel safe. And public opinion has no partner as something distinct from the social standard. A single woman is difficult to come back in the evening to an empty apartment. And ... it is difficult to give up their freedom.

I feel ambivalent - recognized the 35-year-old Olga, assistant deputy. - At work, I fly like the wings, and come home - rolls blues. I am passionate about the work, proud of my independence. But sometimes I think all it would give, only to have a family, children. Then comes the morning, I drive to go to the Duma, and say to myself, If you want to become a hen? What are you, crazy? 

Equal Relationships between Man and Woman

Introduction Currently, women have made ​​significant advances in the fields of education, labor and health, even if a long way off Become the ideas and aspirations of equality between men and women characterized by few achievements in terms of equity from gender especially in the family space, Towards more equitable gender relations. In this work, has been the proposal "gender democracy" which seeks to broaden the discussion on the changes in gender relations, also takes a look Cabot of the limitations of theoretical approaches used until recently to explain the equity in gender relations 2. - Objectives objective Introduce gender equality to build the personal, family and social, Specific Objectives-Making each other have the same opportunities in life -promoting equitable relationships 3.

The secret to the success of the personality detained - complexes?

The motif of turning an ugly duckling into a swan slipping in many fairy tales and stories, in books and movies. Watching a movie with a main character who is a loser who always suffers constantly, we intuitively anticipate the final - he will win and will wipe your nose brazen anti-hero. But in the life of many examples of the success of the engine becomes an inferiority complex. For the first time spoke about the famous psychologist Alfred Adler: "To be a complete human being, you need to have an inferiority complex." It is based on this statement of his theory. Indeed, there are many examples - the world-famous people with complexes to overcome this feeling, by all means try to give meaning to their figure and something bright shine. It's no secret that suffered from an inferiority complex Napoleon because of his small stature.

Mistress - The deity of love and fun for men?

Once on the train I met an interesting woman who has worked syndrome companion when you want to speak out and for all to disperse, without meeting more than ever. She told about his personal life in which I was surprised by one fact. After the wedding, her husband met the woman who became his mistress. "They went 10 years until I convinced him to go to live abroad. We left, and their romance is over ... "- she concluded. 10 years! Since the first year of marriage. I was impressed by how calm the woman took this situation. Sagacity and experience the life-hardened, it's about the mistress reasoned somehow philosophically ... To play the mistress never had a clear relationship: one of her contemptible condemns others feel very stupid woman.

How to raise the perfect wife?

Ladies, this article is written just for men. Do not waste your precious time in reading it, as will be discussed topic for you all is not fun and can cause resentment or even anger. So, ladies and gentlemen, let us start, while the women are busy with their chores. Perhaps some of you are thinking, if I do not make a family, imagining a cozy home nest, caring and beautiful wife and kids, shalunishek who frolic in the nursery. Dreaming is necessary, because every dream can become a reality. But it will have to make some efforts. Take a pencil and paper and sketched out broad strokes, as you can imagine the perfect wife . 1. It should be attractive and well-groomed at all times. How it will do - it's not your concern. 2. Immediately have to think of a question: will it work or just do housework. Housewife has negative associations: it is something eternally shaggy, greasy coat and worn-out slippers. Let us consider the option - working wife. If your salary is not too high, the extra money that can bring into the house of the wife not be amiss. 3. Duties of the wife in their spare time would be to wash things and cleaning the apartment.

What is ego?

Let us consider three things: selfishness at all, selfishness in love in particular and love (bed) self-interest as a form of selfishness in love. Propose a simple technique: first ask the all-knowing Internet, and then connect the common sense and everyday experience. And come to a final judgment. Do you agree? What is ego? Ironically, Google is not too abundant in the definition. Here, perhaps, the most common, which has roots from Mr. Freud's self-interest - is showing interest in a man to himself, characterized by a focus on their desires, instincts, his own world as a whole. Have you read? Ask yourself what this definition include a categorical negative? Nothing, right? However, continuing to search further, you can find a variety of materials in which the notion of self-interest is attributed to the negative, even anti-social coloring.

What is love egotistic?

Previous article convincingly proved that selfishness in vain at the household level, stained exclusively in black. All of us are selfish by nature, but the minority recognizes this fact and uses effectively, and most - prefers to dress in the clothes of an affected Hypocrites, attributing his good actions allegedly good intentions. Ha-ha-ha! I propose to put our new knowledge on gender relations. Especially in the discussions about the article " What is love? "I promised to consider the theme of selfishness in love, remember? What is selfishness in love? As we know, selfishness - it's not such a terrible beast, as he is often draws our imagination. How is this very selfishness manifested in love? To start reasoning recall what we mean by love : a state of repression of its own self-interest in favor of the selfishness of another person.

Do I necessitate a woman ... mind?

Whatever is said about the fact that people just spoil everything objectively achievements of mankind are innumerable. One has only to remember about antibiotics, mobile phones, space flight, fluid for permanent waving or the TV series "The Big Bang Theory" as the heart of every person on Earth should overflow with legitimate pride for their own progressiveness. Among other achievements of mankind may be mentioned that even just two years ago, women are not supposed existence of an immortal soul, and we enjoy the right to vote less than a century - though thanks to the intense struggle is remembered only in the eighth day of March. And the strange thing is that in an era when intelligence led virtually all the processes still hear a chorus of voices that do not need a woman to mind.

From what men should hang about away from?

What men do not contact? can make a whole encyclopedia. Here and alcoholics and drug addicts, and parasites, and mama's boys and gigolos and spenders, and goons, and simply irresponsible types that are quickly and completely slip away at the first sign of difficulty. Of course, these can be seen almost immediately - if a man does not know how to have fun without alcohol, according to the change on the first date or not at all instead of a restaurant is a walk in the park - do not even try to give him a second chance. But sometimes in our life's journey meets a man without all of the above-mentioned drawbacks, with good work, alert and have the values ​​that are so movingly described in the "Domostroi" - authoritative, strength, ability to solve problems. On such shamelessly nostalgic many modern women, saying that "for him - like a stone wall."

On what we immovable cheating?

What we sometimes deceive ourselves, and what - other? And if you do decide to read my article, the first of its proposals so I was able to intrigue you. It is also a kind of deception - to increase the number of views, for example ... You have seen an unusual name, opened the article and started reading immediately realized: "Nonsense!" - And closed it, and the number of hits increased. That's it! But it was indeed nonsense, let's get down to business. On what we caught cheating? Immediately okinte view the entire list - do not expect such a volume? Even more interesting was the ... Maybe soon you will not understand, what does all of these phrases is cheating, but just think about it: the sometimes deceived themselves, and with that - deceiving others. 1. We no longer believe in what we want to hear.

Rudeness? This mistake

The street, in the store, at work, on the staircase, and, unfortunately, even at home. Very often curses and swear words , according to the observations, the room is filled with clinics and post offices. Reason: violation of the order. The most common, but it should be noted, the most decent of the phrases that can be heard, like, 'You were not here, "" Where you're going? "" I have no date, miss, "" you, then what's the hurry, you are retired, "" Young and hussy. " All this is taking place. Of course, some are guilty, they heard the bad words in his address, his behavior if they intentionally run up against rudeness. Ham, in the crowd you can not guess. He was like a maniac; it looks usually does against the background stands out from time to time. But here was something that prevented him angered, and away we go: ham will not remain silent, he will express what he thinks, and he thinks of you only as bad.

How to organize the priorities in being?

Many women in the top positions in the professional rank from time to time asking the same question. I personally think that in this case compared inappropriate category. Bi athlete will not complain that he was overtaken by a skater, despite the fact that he was a good shot. As well as the driver of the BMW is not upset that "six" is cheaper. Chicken - do not know how to swim like a duck. And the eagle is not concerned that he has no such magnificent plumage, like the ostrich. After all, does have a professionally successful women or women on the list of priorities in life is displayed, the big neon letters "boots and a half thousand euro"? I'm sure it's not there. But there is a neat bronze inscription on the marble: "Professional ambition", "Spiritual", "Honored Glory" and I'm not afraid of the words "World domination". Then why many worry that they do not have boots and a half thousand euro?

What Is The Basis Of Family Happiness?

Why do people create a family? Once accepted to say out loud that for the sake of love, and in fact many reasons that it is difficult to enumerate, for example, to correct the financial situation, to solve some issues and problems. Get married, get married, and for children, and wishing all split in half, for example, the values ​​of life.

By the way, these same values ​​and begin to divide in the first place. "Sharing" quite successfully held for the first time when the two - a man and a woman, trying hard to make nice to each other, as if standing on tiptoe. But on his toes for a long time will not stand, be sure to become a whole foot will return to its natural state.

And start a family routine. Loved one who went out of their way to meet our requirement, tired of the constant violence on their habits and views and comes back to the usual way of life for themselves.

Tired of failure? Begin to think absolutely!

 Each of us has been to the life of pleasant events that happened out of the blue. When deep down something very like, but you drove these thoughts as something impracticable, and suddenly it's something going on! For example, it may be the gift you've always wanted, the work of which we can only dream of, a journey on which there was neither the means nor the capacity to love, which has existed for others but not for you ... Why we are often, unfortunately, "attract" to his negative events? For example, you were afraid that you would steal a car, and, notwithstanding any alarm, it still increases. Well or not so sad example: you are very afraid of catching a cold, and no matter how Kula, disease sooner or later overtakes you. If you are going to do a great deal, you think through a dozen possible ways of negative developments to foresee all possible options for protection, but actually implemented eleventh option that you did not foresee, and it's still failing. The familiar situation?

How to learn to understand other people and to avoid conflicts?

Malakhova Ganna, - an integral part of human life. It would seem elementary skill. But it turns out that many people simply do not know how to communicate at the appropriate level, to communicate with people. Some people have developed communication skills at a basic level. Just transfer of sounds, words and information. But it's not all that makes our relationship, because we are not machines. Conflicts and quarrels just happen on that basis. All this has a big effect on our lives. And the ability to properly communicate with people helping dispose of his people, even partly manipulated, and this, in turn, allows you to create favorable situations and conditions. "Understanding - the beginning of consent" (Benedict Spinoza) Perhaps most people lack tolerance and the ability to understand another person.

Why do not we identify what we feel like, really?

Recently, there are many techniques, training, magic rituals and other conspiracy theories on "How to understand what you really want." Thank you for this progress - for centuries the person did not have a choice - well, almost was not. The son of a peasant did not have a chance to learn something other than how to plow, sow; the heir Butcher was one way - from the slaughterhouse to the bench, the son of a nobleman - a military career. He was born a girl - be patient steps and pushing, then get married and be happy until old age of 40, unless he first die of child bed fever. And so on - a rare adventurers and people unique willpower managed to get on the pirate ship, a prospector or someone else, going beyond the kind of karma. Do not get tired of singing the praises of scientific and technical progress, which almost made ​​the call all the odds. Today, we have lots of ways to go.

Do we need feminism?

Feminism can be characterized by the phrase: "What did we fight for it and ran." When a woman claimed her, she had yet to defend them, thereby angering the population of all earthly men. As in any endeavor, there were difficulties and excesses. For example, a representative of feminism could sue the man who missed her at the door. But it is not absurd? There are various manifestations of feminism. In normal incarnation feminism does not give women the benefits, but restores justice. It is not a day at the plate, and can do their work responsibilities. Many women do well in a career that is more successful than men.They can raise their own children, if for some reason the marriage did not work out. The term "feminism" on everyone's lips, the woman does not want to be enslaved by men, but in reality, women are not ready to clean feminism.

Who and why it is indispensable to drive the women in the kitchen stall?

Have not you noticed that women's articles on "how to arrange family" - they are always about what should a woman do to keep the family good? But the articles and tips written for men - on the contrary, they are always about what should a woman do so was a good family ... Articles are flow distribution knocked cloud: about the fact that the meaning of the life of women in the family and procreation, that any man - a lazy and lustful goat , but it should be pleasing. And despite the huge amount of these tips  - all the tips and tricks 'how to behave' addressed only to women. 'How to be the one and only - remove the bags under your knees.' And the endless roulades and grace on 'marriage - it is work, family - it is work, love - it's also a job, and then he will leave.' After 5 minutes, sincerely want to advice - to give him a kick and have a rest ... Yes, I forgot to mention that in the same cage is indispensable, 'a woman's mind is to look stupid,' 'and it scared and go away!" Well, I will also send a hackneyed saying about the head and neck.

How to talk to your children?

The technological revolution and the high degree of employment work do not leave us the opportunity to pay sufficient attention to the full development of children. Computers, TVs, set top boxes, tablets and more, and even replace the parents and the child taken away from each other. How can today to raise children? Social and psychological development of the child occurs continuously, every year of his childhood . During this time he learns the social experience, values and attitudes. It is important to remember that just as a child is the formation of mental processes, the development of intellectual abilities and social formation. And then, what kind of person your child will be completely up to you and its environment.

Is it possible to live a life without suffering?

How do you see your ideal career? What would you like to be tomorrow, next month, next year? What you ideally want to do in 5 years? Who is next? What surrounds you? How do you feel after 10 years? What are you doing? What do you have? And when you die and how? .. If you describe in detail your ideal life, you will discover the love, freedom, prosperity, wealth. It is a life without problems. It does not hurt, loss, illness, frustration, people you do not like ... The ideal way of life - this is the way without suffering. Did you see or know of a man who lived his life without suffering? Such a person does not exist, because you can not live your life happy and avoid suffering, taking advantage of other people's experiences.

How to choose a collaborator to construct a family?

Dreaming of a strong relationship and a happy family life? If you carefully consider the choice of the satellite, you can implement your perfectly legitimate desire. In order not to make a mistake, try to figure out who you'd like to see next. Let us not delay, make a portrait of the man. Respect, flexibility, the ability to compromise, maturity and responsibility - a short list, without which the happy couple just can not do, but there are other important details. Among other leading priorities in life and sexual compatibility. If the list of values ​​favorite order is different from yours, it is difficult to achieve mutual understanding. For example, have you been at work all day and night, for career and family are providing for you in the first place, and the spouse is waiting for you at home, resenting and dreaming of the joint leisure.

Why nightmare as regards an ex boyfriend?

Meeting with ex-boyfriend in my life - a phenomenon explainable, but talk to him in a dream, and even when sleeping next to a new lover - a real mystery. Why is he dreaming ? After all, life has changed, there was love, future plans, etc. From the past was gone, but ... He thinks about you? Many women associate the appearance of the former in his sleep with his personal feelings and experiences. If you dream about - then still loves and can not forget. Then why not call? Shy or not sure what you say to him in return. On the one hand, it is logical, but try to look at the situation from a different angle. As his thoughts influence your dreams? It can be assumed that he has magical powers and is trying to get into your subconscious .

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Tired of failure? commence to think optimistically!

Each of us has been to the life of pleasant events that happened out of the blue. When deep down something very like, but you drove these thoughts as something impracticable, and suddenly it's something going on! For example, it may be the gift you've always wanted, the work of which we can only dream of, a journey on which there was neither the means nor the capacity to love, which has existed for others but not for you ... Why we are often, unfortunately, "attract" to his negative events? For example, you were afraid that you would steal a car, and, notwithstanding any alarm, it still increases. Well, or not so sad example: you are very afraid of catching a cold, and no matter how Kuta, disease sooner or later overtakes you.

Seven steps to convert your life

Welcome to the course that can transform your life one step at a time. These are the seven key components which will be focused on over seven weeks to inspire, support and encourage you to create and manage the process of change in your life.

(1). Becoming more conscious

This first session is the foundation from which to start the process of making changes in your life. We will explore the tools that can help you to take a step back, to look at the habitual ways that you live your life, and discover new choices that will allow you to live each day of your life “differently”.

When we pause and reflect on what we do with our time and energy we uncover the core beliefs and patterns which are often operating at an unconscious level – this new awareness allows the changes we want to make to unfold more easily and effortlessly.

How to modify your life? create with by hand!

Our desire at times abstract: I want a lot of money, I want the car abruptly, I want a beautiful home. One day I walk at night and dream: "I want to see the golden pot" ... And now the sun getting lower, wonderful sunset, the grass is golden - lo and behold, my wish came true! Learn to think more specifically - that is our task. Change itself is difficult, but it is from this start. Do you want to earn a lot? Then answer the question, but many - how many? Our desire at times is as follows: I'll go there, do not know where! I want that, do not know what is! Roughly, it looks like this: I want to go on vacation to any country abroad. I want a bigger apartment and more cozy.

How to construct a vision approach true?

What do you think, why some people have their dreams come true, while others - not? The answer is simple: some allow themselves to have it, and others - not. Do not allow to such an extent that even did not even dream about anything. But people impose on their capabilities infinite number of constraints, including financial, "This car is what I want, I can not afford, I just kind of ..." Where in this case, you will undertake the coveted car if you are deprived themselves of the right to have it? So the first thing you need to do in order to wish came true - is to allow yourself to think of it as a very real event that happens to you. You should know that it will be so. And with what and whom it happens, as long as you and not have to know. You can not control all the processes in the universe.

Early on expansion. Whether it is essential to edify art child to convey a year?

A child is not born with perfect eyesight and hearing, they had developed gradually. And whether or not to start teaching a child to read a year? But since reading is a kind of human speech, we first discuss what it is. You can find many definitions of it: from the ability to speak, speaking a historically constituted a form of human communication through language constructs that are created on the basis of certain rules. But they all say the same thing: we are - this is the element of communication. And it is impossible without establishing and developing contacts for joint activities. And the more complex joint activity, the more difficult question. In a
general sense, a speech is a transfer of information using one or another language - a system of symbols. In addition to language, using words that people in their daily life encounters with body language, facial expressions, dance, mathematics, programming, etc.

Sharp Eye: What should be alerted to your darling?

New young people, new relationships, dating, romance, and plans for the future together. Each of us looks at the new partner and dreams as soon as possible to solve it and to determine: whether you are really good together, would you be happy? Despite being in love, do not give in to emotions entirely, try to rationally approach the issue of a common future with the young man and appreciate there not something that is suspicious?

Before deciding easier, we have compiled a list of things that you have to guard, and possibly and cause a breakup! your favorite shows no attention to you. Obviously: there is no point to keep in touch with someone who is not interested in you or indifferent. Notice: loving person interested to know your habits, attitudes, things ... If your man is not interested like that, and besides, he can under the pretext to leave the bye, miss it, and then did not come - it means serious business.

Type of personality

The division of society into castes - is primitive or ancient Hindus rather interesting personality typology, relevant to today's society? Is it possible that an understanding of this theory will help a person decide in what he had better engage in life and whom to marry? Let's try to understand ... It is known that in ancient India, there was a clear hierarchy, which implies four classes 1. "Brahman" - the highest caste, treated people involved in religious, scientific and educational activities. 2. "Kshatriya" - this estate belonged to the administrators and soldiers. 3. "Vaishya" - comprised of merchants and moneylenders. 4. "Shudra" - a class of those involved in manual labor. Also, there is another category - "untouchables", treated everyone who was not included in any of these classes. According to the laws of the time, caste transferred by inheritance.

How do you extend a 6th wisdom?

Almost all people have this sixth sense. It comes out of nowhere by itself. Man this is not using their senses - sight, hearing, touch, smell. Is it possible to develop their intuition? Intuition depends on the simultaneous cooperation of both hemispheres of the brain, and it occurs more often in women. Women are more open to the world of sensations, it applies to everything carefully and confidentially. In some situations, too often fall into the ladies - see prophetic dreams, think of the man - and he comes or calls as if the thought had read. Many unexplained intuitive sense we refer to the matches, so we ignore important signals, which are sent to us by our brain. Children are listened to, trust your feelings and rarely make mistakes. Sometimes they are better than we know what is good for them and what is bad. Intuition is sometimes able to save him from death, to protect us from many diseases, to warn of the danger.

Why not lucky in life?

Success has many fathers. The failure - is an orphan. For thousands of years mankind has resorted to all sorts of tricks, spells and rituals to attract the success and influence the outcome of events. Without denying the impact on human life and the thin high matters, I want to do a review of the most likely causes of bad luck, lack of success in modern man. What do you mean no luck in life? Each particular person has different ideas about luck, luck has its own criteria. What one would consider good luck, the other will perceive as a failure. There are people who see the reasons for his bad luck only in themselves. There are people blaming their failures in the whole world, but not themselves. People who are looking for the causes of bad luck in itself, in my opinion, is closer to the truth than those who blames his blunders of others, government reform, globalization, crisis.

Is it possible to bring back the romance in a relationship?

Who can say what is love? Oh! Find thousands of definitions and all of them will be true. But do we think that love can be different? Passionate, tender, home ... That it can evolve and grow and grow with us? After all, we are not standing still. I was wondering, is it possible to bring back those same feelings - and the euphoria of flight alone anticipation of visits from loved ones? And asked to reflect on this topic a few dozen pairs by asking them a question: "Is it possible to bring back the romance in a relationship?" The majority of respondents - young couples living together. After receiving the questionnaire, I was struck by how rational and realistic were the views of young people - as if I had received responses from couples who have lived together many happy years and have raised a lot of children and grandchildren. But first things first! Her opinion "Actually, 30-year-old man can not change! Only if it is absolutely tryaposhnymi, who only need this?" .

Success in life - a dream or reality?

Millions of people are wondering about how self-realization in life, to become independent and successful. The answer to this question can be found closer and faster than you can imagine. The basis of a successful man is his inner self.That's it, ready to stress, work and improvement, can help you become successful. What about his temper, you might ask. Very simple. Most importantly, the desire and the willingness to accept new things. Initially, be prepared to change their way of life , and more importantly - his consciousness. The main error of the person who wants to change, it is the "love" to all the old and familiar. You want to get a new job, but do not want to part with old clothes? Ask: where is the link? It's simple: to part with the past, we let into our lives is something new, as if to clear the space for new events, things, etc.

How do I find the manipulator?

Manipulator provides special behavior. He always strives to capture the attention of people around them. He did not scruple to use the suggestion, threats, blackmail. Manipulator knows that pretending sufferer can cause shame and recalling how much done for their sacrifices will make paying for it again and again. He uses the weak points of attachment and needs , personal beliefs and values ​​of people trying to awaken a sense of guilt, worthlessness and failure , strikes such phrases as, "Areyou not respect us?", "How can you do this?", "You let us down!".