Rudeness? This mistake

The street, in the store, at work, on the staircase, and, unfortunately, even at home. Very often curses and swear words , according to the observations, the room is filled with clinics and post offices. Reason: violation of the order. The most common, but it should be noted, the most decent of the phrases that can be heard, like, 'You were not here, "" Where you're going? "" I have no date, miss, "" you, then what's the hurry, you are retired, "" Young and hussy. " All this is taking place. Of course, some are guilty, they heard the bad words in his address, his behavior if they intentionally run up against rudeness. Ham, in the crowd you can not guess. He was like a maniac; it looks usually does against the background stands out from time to time. But here was something that prevented him angered, and away we go: ham will not remain silent, he will express what he thinks, and he thinks of you only as bad.

When you receive”sect rudeness" no restrictions on age and sex. Hamkov may be plump woman with a charming blush on the cheeks. You look at this and decide that it is goodness itself. And how will the pose, will go into a rage, will open his mouth and reveal itself in all its glory ... What to say about horny fifteen year old boy who stick with indecent proposals to the girls. After receiving a negative response, such muzhchinki irritated violent tirade: Why, wronged him, ostensibly such irresistible. I want to cover my ears to not hear all this abomination. Cute boy of eight years otrodu also able to get nasty without a twinge of conscience. For what? This question is useless to torture yourself. Do not look for answers, are unlikely to find. Of course, you can write off bad manners on rudeness, mental problems, but that does not make rudeness less painful and less ugly. Do not excuse rudeness! How to respond to rudeness? To be rude in return, snap, attack? So do most. Engaging in an imaginary dialogue with an agent provocateur, we are trying to protect them and to put in place bugger to justify their own bad behavior that we have a sense of self-worth ("I will not allow myself to not treat!"). Responding to rudeness to rudeness, we play by the rules of the boor, he deliberately provokes conflict; it is so interesting and fun to live. Sometimes the simplest situation can be developed so that it turns into a fight, and start verbal sparring that you see no end to it. Then you scroll through a whole day this situation in mind, remember who said what, and trying to remember, which is why this entire all started. Frayed nerves in the eyes of anger, mood at zero. Does it cost a boor your attention? Of course not. The conflict - it is always stress that health is clearly not add. But we want to live happily ever after. Means of communication with the boor is best avoided. Constructive dialogue does not work, it's a fact. Do not go on about the cad, do not mess with him. Begin to talk back, to be rude in return - and, accordingly, be like the boor, get down to his level. Stay up! It is better not to escalate the situation and save the dispassionate stance. All louts - ugly people. However, the feisty lady princess never called. There it is: feisty princess does not happen, there are ugly women.