Of course, you'll be begging
for forgiveness may try to compensate for their lack of gifts, but you can not
get away from work. It is unlikely that you will radically change the situation.
A sexual frustration sooner or later will have an impact on the nerves and
health, and relationships in general. Similarities and differences Folk wisdom
is ambiguous regarding compatibility - that "opposites attract", the "two
of a kind." Perhaps both are true in different situations. For example, if
both partners are active, love to play sports, it brought them closer together,
but if both aspire to leadership in the family, it will cause permanent conflicts.
On the other hand, when one is not capable of rapid decision making, and the
second all ready to take over, they would both be comfortable with each other. This
successful complementarity will achieve greater success timid partner and will
prove himself to the leader. Appearance If a person's appearance put you off - this
is not a good signal for the relationship. And it's not about the standard of
beauty - your beloved can be the proud owner of an aquiline nose and a beer
belly. For all its "wealth", he may like you and even umilyat the
features. But if there is something in your partner is disgusting, rejection,
it is best not to rush to continue dating. Sense of humor If there are no
partners of a similar sense of humor, of course they can live together, but in
the difficult times of life it will complicate the relationship. You do not
have to fool around with the morning until the evening to consider my family
happy, but understanding each other's jokes do not hurt. Think about it, if
your jokes, once again, do not cause the smiles on the face of your partner. What
this could mean? The fact that you have different views on life and the
attitude to it. Sometimes a lack of understanding of humor reveals differences
in education or upbringing. Laughing at other people's failures, blunders and
troubles of others should alert you. Before the wedding, you'll be making fun
of her neighbor naparu Isolde, and after backbiting sooner or later has come to
you. Believe me, you will not be funny. Excessive amounts of jokes about gender
differences, sex or racism may also indicate problems in these areas. Common
interests The existence of common interests - it is an opportunity to spend fun
time together, always ready story. When people are good together and have something
to talk about - they're happy. In some pairs of partners share interests with
each other. For example, one drags the other ice skating, and it's becoming a
common hobby. If the same interests and hobbies are radically different, then
to achieve harmony in the relationship will be more difficult. The intellectual
level of education and Romantic stories of loafers and clever happen and to
this day, but when it comes to an acquaintance with friends and parents, it
becomes awkward. If the girl has two degrees, a tendency to quote philosophers
and love to use aphorisms, and its choice does not know what is "aphorism,"
but hesitate to ask - to build a good relationship will be difficult. It's not
so much the diplomas and "crusts", their absence may be caused by
some third-party circumstances, but in the intellectual abilities of human
curiosity. Psychologists are increasingly coming to the conclusion that the
closer the level of intelligence, the stronger the love union. Religion It is
important to adhere to similar religious views, because they are difficult to
change. Religion - is not just a word, it is a whole cultural system that runs
through all of the perception of life. Think it will be nice under one roof
believer and atheist? Religious differences have been the originators of the
disorder. Performing rituals, prayer, fasting, going to church or mosque, and,
finally, the spiritual education of children sometimes become the cause of much
controversy and anger in the family. Family of parents Married, we need to
understand that not only made affinity with her husband, but also with his
family. Even if they live a thousand miles away and come every five years. Parents
have a strong influence not only on the nature of the child, but also his
understanding of marriage , division of household duties. If your beloved dad
liked to go all the houses on tiptoe, but after hitting his fist on the table
ran from room to room, it is quite possible that by the same "family idyll"
aims and successor kind. Ask about family, look at the behavior and
relationships between parents partner. But if the parents did not work out
family relationships, it does not mean that your marriage is doomed to
unhappiness, the main thing - to analyze their mistakes and not repeat them in
their own lives. Views on family life and child-rearing Better to discuss this
topic even before the wedding. What do you expect from both family life ? How
do you see your life, your leisure time? Do you have children? How many
children do you want? Do not assume that your partner will certainly agree with
your point of view. The more details you draw each other a picture of your
future life together, the less unpleasant surprises waiting for you in the
future. If your plans vary widely, in real life, inconsistencies may be much
greater. Conflicts If you have never had a fight with someone, it does not mean
that the conflict between you generally never will be. Most likely, did not
pass the time in a relationship when the two try to give each other everything.
But you will see the ability to partner out of the dispute, to compromise and
accept someone else's point of view only when your interests are somewhat cross.
So saying that you are the perfect couple, do not jump to conclusions to a
small get-together. Avoid rude people, people with mental disorders and various
dependencies. Drug addiction, gambling addiction and alcoholism are not by
themselves. Do not play the role of savior, where professional help is needed. In
the period of love you will solemnly promised to "tie" when a new
post, the wedding or the birth of a child. It is worth considering: if
everything is so simple, why is now the person continues to spoil life for
themselves and others. Of course, there are rare exceptions, but as a rule, "after"
the situation is only getting worse. Some dreams and not to get off the lists
here. Drop the idea that you will never meet "a man", and go to meet
him. More often leave the house, go in with what you love, find like-minded
people, attend theaters, exhibitions, dating sites and other places where you
can meet your ideal. Believe in yourself! Our happiness is in our hands!
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