Do I necessitate a woman ... mind?

Whatever is said about the fact that people just spoil everything objectively achievements of mankind are innumerable. One has only to remember about antibiotics, mobile phones, space flight, fluid for permanent waving or the TV series "The Big Bang Theory" as the heart of every person on Earth should overflow with legitimate pride for their own progressiveness. Among other achievements of mankind may be mentioned that even just two years ago, women are not supposed existence of an immortal soul, and we enjoy the right to vote less than a century - though thanks to the intense struggle is remembered only in the eighth day of March. And the strange thing is that in an era when intelligence led virtually all the processes still hear a chorus of voices that do not need a woman to mind.

Just remember, for example, the Victorian era, when the woman was a dumb doll, which did not give no education, no opportunities for self-expression. Her role was - to decorate a living room between the card-table and canapes and time to dispose of his servants about tea and cigars. And if about electricity, cars and mobile practically no one has objections - no one would ever call out to use torches, ride a horse or deliver messages nodular letter or koryabat on birch bark, then about the need for a woman to be not so smart unequivocally. Many online and in the ache of life, would gladly go back to the past and all the grief that only the female mind. Many of us have heard many times that the female mind - it is harmful option, which is to get rid of his school years. And if you can not, you have to carefully hide, or at least a mask reading. Type as hiding under loose clothing or dangling belly ugly volumes on the thighs, and the wrinkles on her forehead - a frivolous fringe. And all right if it burns haters claimed equality with one hand waving a plow, and the other firmly gripping read out to the holes "Domostroj"! I recently was shocked to see this statement - literally "do not try to be clever, mind only hurts women" - a popular website devoted to psychology, family issues and the development of femininity. Among the really efficient things that are not able to straighten the brains of one in need of advice, all of a sudden a strange lurking fly in the ointment, which is immediately ruined all good content, and made me think about the personality of the author. I am in no way against the development of femininity. On the contrary, only for the fact that women realize that their destiny - it is not only On the contrary, femininity - this visit spas, massages, cosmetics, fashionable hairdresser, fitness, women's yoga, reading spiritual literature and even leopard prints on clothes and painted on the nails. The presence of mind is not contrary to self-care and self-development. But opponents of the female mind believe that he can scare a man: and suddenly a man, God forbid, does not feel condescending to a woman the upper hand! It turns out that she had something better! From such a one-sided perception of women is patriarchal medieval ditch that kind marsh, in which women are viewed only as appendages to men. Not found a guy by any means - whether good, adjusts, hide your mind, do not earn more (remember, another common misconception says that men do not like wealthy, strong-willed, successful - and so on until the very beautiful ). Slouch, not sparkling eyes, Tupi and silly giggles - and you will have true happiness with a capital letter. Another popular opinion about the so-called women's wisdom, which is manipulative practices, and the ability to blackmail again, and bend over backwards to pretend. But I dare say that, pretending to be a woman is absolutely not a - not a real one. And draws, respectively, of the same unreal man, that is a notorious loser. Real men feel pride in the fact that close to them smart, successful, beautiful woman, and not worry that she is his superior in some ways. Real men rejoice in the successes of their half, and not jealous. These men believe that by developing herself, she helps develop them. And we do not need fake!