The secret to the success of the personality detained - complexes?

The motif of turning an ugly duckling into a swan slipping in many fairy tales and stories, in books and movies. Watching a movie with a main character who is a loser who always suffers constantly, we intuitively anticipate the final - he will win and will wipe your nose brazen anti-hero. But in the life of many examples of the success of the engine becomes an inferiority complex. For the first time spoke about the famous psychologist Alfred Adler: "To be a complete human being, you need to have an inferiority complex." It is based on this statement of his theory. Indeed, there are many examples - the world-famous people with complexes to overcome this feeling, by all means try to give meaning to their figure and something bright shine. It's no secret that suffered from an inferiority complex Napoleon because of his small stature.

In M. Monroe was the loser complex, which was the fault of an unfortunate childhood. "What am I? What I can do? I - nothing. The empty space and nothing else. I have a void in my heart! "It is this complex made her improve gait, manners and of itself. She wanted to be perfect, as a result of which it has made all the same. D. Kerry admitted that he was an outsider, he's no one wanted to talk, and he had to work on their systems. "If it was not hard work on yourself, on your character, I'm not sure if I could do anything in this life." The list is endless of famous personalities. There are people with complexes of poverty and humiliation. So often the story about the hard life of the poor is the starting point. Celebrities talk about how they were interrupted without means of subsistence, but that desperation has driven to achieve something in real life. If it were not for these difficulties, there would be no personality. Most systems in the child generate adults: "You never will achieve anything in life, because you're not learning." Or the student becomes an outcast in the classroom, his classmates humiliated, it seems that he is treated unfairly teacher. Then, along with complexes of such a person is born, the intention of rebellion: "Nothing that I grew up, and they all show! You will notice me! We'll see about that! "Complex is converted into a powerful motivation. After a time, a man sees a successful businessman, a leader, a person held. Ambient only wonder: "Was this tatty invisible, and now - a great man." Do complexes are the key to success in the development of personality? After all, it is assumed that a notorious man - it's a loser. Difficult person to live with complexes, so it certainly will deal with them. However, all choose different paths. To attract attention, some buy branded clothes, diamonds and so want to make themselves something like, "Look how cool I am! I'm worth something. “It’s one thing when a person becomes a favorite thing, and quite another when at the same time be free from uncertainty in it. In this case, the clothes can give meaning to their own personality. But there are people who do not stop at the external well-being, their complex becomes a powerful source of motivation, and all their forces are sent out to prove to himself and others that he is not a pathetic loser, as everyone thought, but just the opposite. Then the complexes are transformed into the secret of success, because they help to achieve in life very much.