New young people, new
relationships, dating, romance, and plans for the future together. Each of us
looks at the new partner and dreams as soon as possible to solve it and to
determine: whether you are really good together, would you be happy? Despite being
in love, do not give in to emotions entirely, try to rationally approach the
issue of a common future with the young man and appreciate there not something
that is suspicious?
Before deciding easier, we have
compiled a list of things that you have to guard, and possibly and cause a
breakup! your favorite shows no attention to you. Obviously: there is no point
to keep in touch with someone who is not interested in you or indifferent. Notice:
loving person interested to know your habits, attitudes, things ... If your man
is not interested like that, and besides, he can under the pretext to leave the
bye, miss it, and then did not come - it means serious business.
You have
different goals in life. For example, you're a supporter of a healthy lifestyle and dream to live away from the bustling city, and your choice can not imagine
life without high-rise metropolis and life saving up money for an apartment in
the center. Or he dreams of home and comfort with
five kids and a wife-hostess, and you - deep-rooted business woman ,
successfully move up the career ladder. Unusually, how do you meet and even
met, but it is obvious that you obviously are not on the road.Bad habits. Your
choice trite drinking or taking drugs. Experience and statistics show that such
relationships are eradicated very, very hard. Are you sure that you want to
associate life with such a man?
Lack of friends. course, you can
assume that your choice was growing up on a desert island and he never came
across people, but experience suggests that any person has at least a couple of
friends and a couple dozen friends. If your man does not have at least one
trusted friend or a few close friends, is wary: what is the reason? Maybe your
choice proved unstable man who can not be relied upon in difficult times? Or
maybe he likes to show off or too chatty?Watch him! women in
his understanding - a "second class." It's amazing that it still
meets with them, however, such instances occur. Such a man thinks a woman's
place at the stove, and most importantly for her - silent. It is however very
tragic case. In everyday life, such men can simply ignore your opinion, to
assume that you can control and you always know what's best for you.Your choice - narcissus. Or, to put it simply, proud man. We will not go into the
reasons - whether brought him so his mother, he became so due to its magazine
appearance or because of other achievements. The fact remains - a man can only
take care of themselves. You need it?
The inability to keep promises
optional. Here is be careful: there are indeed force mature situation where
your young people can not fulfill the promise. However, if such a situation is
repeated day after day - is thoughtful. seven Fridays of the week. This quality
is similar to the previous one. However, this young man is not just optional,
it is constantly changing its plans, decisions, often without telling you - for
example, it may be that its new solution, you know ... quite by accident, and
sometimes even from their friends! Such variability can be cured - but it will
require considerable endurance and self-discipline of your youth. He is willing
to try?
Water boy. early Men tend to
separate from the family and strive for self-sufficiency. If your choice before
that time lived with his mother, perhaps it's a reason to think? Of course,
there are different situations: aid in the repair , mother's illness - in this
case it is even commendable. To define a caring son from momma son, watch him, he
often says, "My mom says ...", "I have to ask my mom ..." etc.
If, however, until that time, a man lives means mother - that being said, no
comment.
As you can see, to build a
relationship - it is not easy. And to choose a reliable man with whom want to
go through the journey of life, is in fact have a sharp eye and look sharp! Let
these tips will help you not to make a mistake!
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