Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Sharp Eye: What should be alerted to your darling?

New young people, new relationships, dating, romance, and plans for the future together. Each of us looks at the new partner and dreams as soon as possible to solve it and to determine: whether you are really good together, would you be happy? Despite being in love, do not give in to emotions entirely, try to rationally approach the issue of a common future with the young man and appreciate there not something that is suspicious?

Before deciding easier, we have compiled a list of things that you have to guard, and possibly and cause a breakup! your favorite shows no attention to you. Obviously: there is no point to keep in touch with someone who is not interested in you or indifferent. Notice: loving person interested to know your habits, attitudes, things ... If your man is not interested like that, and besides, he can under the pretext to leave the bye, miss it, and then did not come - it means serious business.
You have different goals in life. For example, you're a supporter of a healthy lifestyle and dream to live away from the bustling city, and your choice can not imagine life without high-rise metropolis and life saving up money for an apartment in the center. Or he dreams of home and comfort with five kids and a wife-hostess, and you - deep-rooted business woman , successfully move up the career ladder. Unusually, how do you meet and even met, but it is obvious that you obviously are not on the road.Bad habits. Your choice trite drinking or taking drugs. Experience and statistics show that such relationships are eradicated very, very hard. Are you sure that you want to associate life with such a man?

Lack of friends. course, you can assume that your choice was growing up on a desert island and he never came across people, but experience suggests that any person has at least a couple of friends and a couple dozen friends. If your man does not have at least one trusted friend or a few close friends, is wary: what is the reason? Maybe your choice proved unstable man who can not be relied upon in difficult times? Or maybe he likes to show off or too chatty?Watch him! women in his understanding - a "second class." It's amazing that it still meets with them, however, such instances occur. Such a man thinks a woman's place at the stove, and most importantly for her - silent. It is however very tragic case. In everyday life, such men can simply ignore your opinion, to assume that you can control and you always know what's best for you.Your choice - narcissus. Or, to put it simply, proud man. We will not go into the reasons - whether brought him so his mother, he became so due to its magazine appearance or because of other achievements. The fact remains - a man can only take care of themselves. You need it?
The inability to keep promises optional. Here is be careful: there are indeed force mature situation where your young people can not fulfill the promise. However, if such a situation is repeated day after day - is thoughtful. seven Fridays of the week. This quality is similar to the previous one. However, this young man is not just optional, it is constantly changing its plans, decisions, often without telling you - for example, it may be that its new solution, you know ... quite by accident, and sometimes even from their friends! Such variability can be cured - but it will require considerable endurance and self-discipline of your youth. He is willing to try?
Water boy. early Men tend to separate from the family and strive for self-sufficiency. If your choice before that time lived with his mother, perhaps it's a reason to think? Of course, there are different situations: aid in the repair , mother's illness - in this case it is even commendable. To define a caring son from momma son, watch him, he often says, "My mom says ...", "I have to ask my mom ..." etc. If, however, until that time, a man lives means mother - that being said, no comment.

As you can see, to build a relationship - it is not easy. And to choose a reliable man with whom want to go through the journey of life, is in fact have a sharp eye and look sharp! Let these tips will help you not to make a mistake!

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