Manipulator provides special behavior.
He always strives to capture the attention of people around them. He did not
scruple to use the suggestion, threats, blackmail. Manipulator knows that
pretending sufferer can cause shame and recalling how much done for their
sacrifices will make paying for it again and again. He uses the weak points of
attachment and needs , personal beliefs and values of people trying to awaken
a sense of guilt, worthlessness and failure , strikes such phrases as, "Areyou not respect us?", "How can you do this?", "You let us
down!".
Favorite trick of the manipulator - mow a simpleton. He will
pretend to ignore your own needs and immensely surprised that you are not able
to make "such a simple thing!" So necessary for him. After talking
with arms always felt tired and drained. This is not surprising - after all you
have subjected to another's will, forced to do something against their own
wishes.
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