Why not lucky in life?

Success has many fathers. The failure - is an orphan. For thousands of years mankind has resorted to all sorts of tricks, spells and rituals to attract the success and influence the outcome of events. Without denying the impact on human life and the thin high matters, I want to do a review of the most likely causes of bad luck, lack of success in modern man. What do you mean no luck in life? Each particular person has different ideas about luck, luck has its own criteria. What one would consider good luck, the other will perceive as a failure. There are people who see the reasons for his bad luck only in themselves. There are people blaming their failures in the whole world, but not themselves. People who are looking for the causes of bad luck in itself, in my opinion, is closer to the truth than those who blames his blunders of others, government reform, globalization, crisis.

And this is true for the simple reason that affect their inner world it is much easier than to influence the behavior of the government, the president, during the world economic crisis. On the other hand, it is difficult not to agree with the fact that there are objective reasons that do not allow us to get what you want. For example, the fact that we live in Russia, does not allow many of us to get what is available to people in Europe and America. The standard of living in these countries is much higher than ours. A limitation of this objective. But on the other hand, this is not a reason to give up. West inspires their achievements and creations. Equally striking examples of good luck, abundance and creative thoughts I do not see anywhere else. The main reasons for not lucky in life:   Luck of awareness and knowledge, lack of knowledge of life, her lack of understanding. When we study in school subjects, for some reason we see them as something that is not associated with each other. So what is the connection may be between chemistry and geography, between literature and psychology, between physics and economics? School, it seems to me, can not give a complete picture of a growing person of the world, of life. Perhaps because of lack of time and the huge amount of training materials. Perhaps the structure of education can not create a complete picture. Perhaps this is a public policy ... a man came out after school life and in my head all the scraps. And we need to spend a lot more time and effort to somehow make these patches into a single picture that, comparing it with reality, to find in this web erroneous judgments and dubious claims. Acquisition of experience and constant self-education will help overcome this barrier to success.   Psychological illiteracy, psychological ignorance. Actions under the influence of programs and scripts, inculcated in childhood. Ignorance and an inability to build relationships, inability to handle their feelings and emotions ... The list goes on and on, because human psychology - something quite extensive. Most of us do not even realize that they are living like blind kittens. "You do not even know what you do not know" - said one day we associate professor at the university. In Russia it is the number one problem - psychological illiteracy. Psychological maturity , usually accompanied by success in many areas of life.   Elementary laziness. Psychologists, marketers, experts on fitness never tire of repeating: "Man - a being very lazy." It must be said that not every failure to act may be called laziness. Sometimes a person does not work for other reasons, for example, makes an important decision. This may be unconsciously and can be stretched in time. Laziness - the most dangerous and insidious enemy of man, as fluent in the art of mimicry (take the form of any object or phenomenon). The ability to timely recognize the laziness and the ability to take adequate measures - one of the most important skills in life. Lack of action is clearly needed, no action without objective reasons (external or internal) - that's what laziness. No outsider can not determine whether now is lazy people, or he has a reason not to act. Laziness in itself, we can only recognize themselves. And we can remove it only by themselves without outside help.   Spiritual immaturity and lack of spirituality. The inability to see and appreciate the beauty of life, the reluctance to recognize its highest value, the value of each moment. Then do not comment. Have you seen a lot of smiling faces in the morning when the sun is so clear, the sky is so blue and the air is fresh, as if it had just come from the sea? It's unbelievable, but such persons could not be found! What a morning, what stars? We've got a problem, and he and his stars and fresh air! But this, apparently, is not related to the issues of spirituality neglect the simple pleasures, and there is lack of spirituality . Life is made up of small pleasures. It is necessary to look back at your life, and you can see a lot more success, and given the small achievements . Big fun too happen, but the one who does not notice the small, most likely not ready and will be to big.   Weak logical thinking. Inability to ask questions and seek reasonable answers. The inability to question oneself and others. Why do we give out diplomas to people who have not learned to think? After all, the logic - the science of the laws and forms of thought. Not studied logic - so do not formed. In that it translates into life? Several erroneous conclusions, and you're out of luck. (One awkward movement, and you - the father, Father of failure.)   Inability to the paradoxical thinking. Paradoxical thinking - the ability to combine things in my head that seem incompatible. By the way, for physicists is the most common. But here is for most other people thing is just incomprehensible. Say, an electron - a particle or a wave? And life is discrete or continuous? Do not know? Ask about experience with the diffraction of electrons. Many thought suggests. Here's a tip: wave-particle duality. Do not believe in fairy tales and black holes? Too bad for you! Should be more flexible. Sometimes it is useful to plant your intelligence on such a split ...   Cowardice, indecision, lack of self-confidence, lack of confidence, modesty, sucked from the finger. Sometimes courage is more than the mind and knowledge. False modesty prevents live openly million. What does it mean to be brave? Sure? About modesty advise you to read Philip Zimbardo.   Failure to act hard, seriously. Many try, and try instead to do. Trying to do something serious is doomed to failure, if not from the very beginning to tune in to achieve the desired result - it's a classic. Tune - so imbued with the aim deeply and sincerely. Begin to experience her feelings and emotions. This emotional charge will do the trick - implements the plan.   Poor health. Reluctance to maintain your body in good shape, and the muscles in motion. People vary greatly in performance. Some have time to do a lot of awesome in a very short time. Healthcare is one of the key limiting factors in any successful business.   Low motivation as a result of low awareness of life. We do not know what we want. And if you want something, do not know why. Working with its objectives, the awakening of sincere and deep needs, energy makeup of successful people - these are the steps necessary to overcome this barrier.   Love for freebies. Another calamity Russia. The habit of getting something without the cost and effort has given us a disservice. When it needs to strain to make an effort to use your loaf, we wonder ... and back down. Do not get tired of repeating that the real and long-lasting in life always requires effort, time, and some of the material investments. This is a fact. Nothing is wasted.   Fear of freedom. Barely having obtained freedom, we seek to whom her hand. Yes, freedom frightens us. Well this is what it is necessary to take the responsibility to make decisions regarding the most of his life. Yes, historically, that the freedoms we fear like the plague. But, gentlemen, now another time. It's time to move away from tradition. If the old begins to weigh, we must reject it.   Fear to be different. For some reason we are still afraid to stand out. We are afraid of publicity, afraid of making it public. Look at the many blogs and websites if you can find pictures of their owners? It says a lot. Show your face - it is to stand out, because a person's face is unique. Being like everyone else, do not stick your neck out - credo loser.   Undeveloped intuition. Intuition - a quiet inner voice. From my own experience I know that it is really quiet and unobtrusive, like the voice of caring, but a wise parent, addressed to children. Inability to hear it a habit to not pay attention to it - that's a recipe for bad luck.   The negative attitude to your experience. You are fired from their jobs, citing the crisis? Fine! Why not get the opportunity, finally, beyond the usual way of thinking and way of life? Wise sees in the crisis an opportunity for development and positive change. If before you shut one door, then in another place another one opened. And she waits for you to enter ... The items listed in any way claim to be an exhaustive answer to the question in the title. However Understand the these items, see what of the writing belongs to you. And good luck sure you will smile!