Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Why did they choose loneliness?

Hard to be lonely. It would seem that you can live the way you want, or under who do not adapt,   professional self-realization.. However, most women are very vulnerable: they need love, they need to feel safe. And public opinion has no partner as something distinct from the social standard. A single woman is difficult to come back in the evening to an empty apartment. And ... it is difficult to give up their freedom.

I feel ambivalent - recognized the 35-year-old Olga, assistant deputy. - At work, I fly like the wings, and come home - rolls blues. I am passionate about the work, proud of my independence. But sometimes I think all it would give, only to have a family, children. Then comes the morning, I drive to go to the Duma, and say to myself, If you want to become a hen? What are you, crazy? 

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Equal Relationships between Man and Woman

Introduction Currently, women have made ​​significant advances in the fields of education, labor and health, even if a long way off Become the ideas and aspirations of equality between men and women characterized by few achievements in terms of equity from gender especially in the family space, Towards more equitable gender relations. In this work, has been the proposal "gender democracy" which seeks to broaden the discussion on the changes in gender relations, also takes a look Cabot of the limitations of theoretical approaches used until recently to explain the equity in gender relations 2. - Objectives objective Introduce gender equality to build the personal, family and social, Specific Objectives-Making each other have the same opportunities in life -promoting equitable relationships 3.

Monday, June 24, 2013

The secret to the success of the personality detained - complexes?

The motif of turning an ugly duckling into a swan slipping in many fairy tales and stories, in books and movies. Watching a movie with a main character who is a loser who always suffers constantly, we intuitively anticipate the final - he will win and will wipe your nose brazen anti-hero. But in the life of many examples of the success of the engine becomes an inferiority complex. For the first time spoke about the famous psychologist Alfred Adler: "To be a complete human being, you need to have an inferiority complex." It is based on this statement of his theory. Indeed, there are many examples - the world-famous people with complexes to overcome this feeling, by all means try to give meaning to their figure and something bright shine. It's no secret that suffered from an inferiority complex Napoleon because of his small stature.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Mistress - The deity of love and fun for men?

Once on the train I met an interesting woman who has worked syndrome companion when you want to speak out and for all to disperse, without meeting more than ever. She told about his personal life in which I was surprised by one fact. After the wedding, her husband met the woman who became his mistress. "They went 10 years until I convinced him to go to live abroad. We left, and their romance is over ... "- she concluded. 10 years! Since the first year of marriage. I was impressed by how calm the woman took this situation. Sagacity and experience the life-hardened, it's about the mistress reasoned somehow philosophically ... To play the mistress never had a clear relationship: one of her contemptible condemns others feel very stupid woman.

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

How to raise the perfect wife?

Ladies, this article is written just for men. Do not waste your precious time in reading it, as will be discussed topic for you all is not fun and can cause resentment or even anger. So, ladies and gentlemen, let us start, while the women are busy with their chores. Perhaps some of you are thinking, if I do not make a family, imagining a cozy home nest, caring and beautiful wife and kids, shalunishek who frolic in the nursery. Dreaming is necessary, because every dream can become a reality. But it will have to make some efforts. Take a pencil and paper and sketched out broad strokes, as you can imagine the perfect wife . 1. It should be attractive and well-groomed at all times. How it will do - it's not your concern. 2. Immediately have to think of a question: will it work or just do housework. Housewife has negative associations: it is something eternally shaggy, greasy coat and worn-out slippers. Let us consider the option - working wife. If your salary is not too high, the extra money that can bring into the house of the wife not be amiss. 3. Duties of the wife in their spare time would be to wash things and cleaning the apartment.

Monday, June 17, 2013

What is ego?

Let us consider three things: selfishness at all, selfishness in love in particular and love (bed) self-interest as a form of selfishness in love. Propose a simple technique: first ask the all-knowing Internet, and then connect the common sense and everyday experience. And come to a final judgment. Do you agree? What is ego? Ironically, Google is not too abundant in the definition. Here, perhaps, the most common, which has roots from Mr. Freud's self-interest - is showing interest in a man to himself, characterized by a focus on their desires, instincts, his own world as a whole. Have you read? Ask yourself what this definition include a categorical negative? Nothing, right? However, continuing to search further, you can find a variety of materials in which the notion of self-interest is attributed to the negative, even anti-social coloring.

Sunday, June 16, 2013

What is love egotistic?

Previous article convincingly proved that selfishness in vain at the household level, stained exclusively in black. All of us are selfish by nature, but the minority recognizes this fact and uses effectively, and most - prefers to dress in the clothes of an affected Hypocrites, attributing his good actions allegedly good intentions. Ha-ha-ha! I propose to put our new knowledge on gender relations. Especially in the discussions about the article " What is love? "I promised to consider the theme of selfishness in love, remember? What is selfishness in love? As we know, selfishness - it's not such a terrible beast, as he is often draws our imagination. How is this very selfishness manifested in love? To start reasoning recall what we mean by love : a state of repression of its own self-interest in favor of the selfishness of another person.