Mistress - The deity of love and fun for men?

Once on the train I met an interesting woman who has worked syndrome companion when you want to speak out and for all to disperse, without meeting more than ever. She told about his personal life in which I was surprised by one fact. After the wedding, her husband met the woman who became his mistress. "They went 10 years until I convinced him to go to live abroad. We left, and their romance is over ... "- she concluded. 10 years! Since the first year of marriage. I was impressed by how calm the woman took this situation. Sagacity and experience the life-hardened, it's about the mistress reasoned somehow philosophically ... To play the mistress never had a clear relationship: one of her contemptible condemns others feel very stupid woman.